I am intending to get a book list up soon and I will be adding more helpful sites to my blogroll!

~ Peace ~

Indigo Leslie

I have recently started into a relationship with an indigo male and am glad for the chance to learn more without having to burden him with constant questions.

In our short time together he has been a wonderful addition to my life, and has open my mind to a new world.

Again, thank you. -Crystal

Thank You!

I’m glad my writings help. That’s the intention.

~ Peace ~

Indigo Leslie

I have venus in Aries, so I tend to be more comfortable in the go-getter position when it comes to relationships, but that’s just me.

But from an indigo adult point of view, that go-getter position also allows me to control the romantic closeness of the relationship. I let up a bit if I start entrancing into my partner too much.

By wording it, “win the girl of my dreams back” you still put yourself in the active position. I would think a better way to phrase that is, “to create an emotional and relationship space that will be comfortable for my love and most beneficial to both of us.”

Sometimes things end and we don’t see why that ending serves us because the ending is uncomfortable. Not to say that is what is true in your case, but intuitives tend to come and go with the vibrational tide, so create a good vibrational space (not one of needing to win someone which will vibrationally feel a bit controlling, even if it’s not) for your love to return to you.

On a more practical level, if she is empathic, it would be helpful for you to do the energy clearing exercise and be sure to send back all of her energy to her.

This might feel uncomfortable to you, because you love her and want to feel her presence on a lot of different levels, but this will feel good to her and she will feel released, if only on a subconscious level. This feeling of release of her energy will feel like freedom to her. Additionally, she might also recognize the absence of your energy in her field and that my draw her back.

Typically all of this is on a subconscious level. I am only aware of this because I have spent many years studying it. I always joke that when a spider burps in China, I feel it. And that’s what I’m talking about here.

Best wishes to you and the woman you care for, and my intention in writing this is for an outcome that is in alignment for the greatest good for all involved.

~ Peace ~

Indigo Leslie

Thank you for expressing yourself.

indigo kell

Notice I said “maybe”…

Honestly, I have no idea.

Energetically it is a different experience to penetrate than to be penetrated. Volumes have been written about this throughout the years.

The indigo adult men that I have been with were effected by my energy, but have been less susceptible to my energetic input than I have been with their energy.

I rarely talk/write in blanket statements such as “Men are not empathic” and if it sounded like that I apologize for misrepresenting my feelings on the matter.

But I do believe that in romantic relationships, women tend to be more empathic than the men.

For example, lets say that two people meet and at the time they are going in two separate directions in their life. But they fall in love and start a relationship. As the relationship wears on, the one holding the masculine energy in the relationship (which in most cases is the man, but not always) will tend to keep his direction in life, and the person holding the feminine energy in the relationship (usually the woman, but not always) will tend to start embodying a support roll for the masculine energy, ESPECIALLY if the feminine energy is extremely empathic. Because she can’t tell until it is too late that she is completely off her path.

Which is why I believe relationships are especially difficult for empaths, no matter what the gender.

The statement you commented on was more a comment (or pondering) of the physical dynamics of sex and how that effects the energetic state.

When I use words like “maybe” and “perhaps” it is because I do not have a set-in-stone opinion on the matter. And that these statements are open to comments. And that I encourage others to give input to widen my perspective. As you have done. And I appreciate that.

You have not really changed my opinion, except that you have made me ponder the energetic nature of male homosexual behavior. Perhaps it is not about penetration because it seems like the tendency in male homosexual culture is to change partners a lot (again… not always, but I have a lot of gay friends that celebrate the promiscuity of gay male culture).

Then again, would a gay male (or anyone for that matter) is empathic and has a lot of sexual partners be feeling into all of them at the same time? That’d be a head-trip, huh?

For more reading on this topic (and a back up to what I have written), you may want to refer to books by David Deida. I don’t agree with everything he says, but I find a lot of it to be true in my life.

For a long time I was very resistant to the assertion that women more naturally fall into the feminine energy and men have more of a tendency to fall into the masculine. And that things work better if individuals accept that when they are in romantic relationships with people (which is David Deida’s main assertion).

But sometimes I think that it does work better. I really don’t know. I have been in relationships that have been deep, but not long.

Unless their gay?
That is not correct, especially as of me a guy who shows his feminism and not GAY! I can do what a woman or women can do of what you said that men cannot do. Don’t forget the few men who show without fear of their feminism side which makes them very powerful men spiritually and physically.
Did you know God All Mighty show his feminism side to understand women? Including understanding his wife? When you do mediation, you can stay at the state everyday while walking or doing the things you do in your day? You can do it. You have to spent hours and days to get the pattern, it depends on the person. Thinking deep positive thoughts can also help you solve problems in your life easier.

Anyways, I am a man who has the ability to have both sides of the sex psychic powers of reincarnation. I can connect to anyone at anywhere in a distances, even to the other side of the world. All I need to know their name and picture of them and state and city or country and city. Then my spirit and my third psychic eye can watch them and connect to them at all times as I wish. I only do it to the ones I care dearly in my life for protection and the love I have for them.
I understand this is her thoughts she jog down on the page, but that was unnecessary that men cannot do what women can do and only can if their gay. Which wrong too? Most men are closed psychic people and it’s even hard for gay’s to connect and most of them are spiritual about things for the fact of their own fears they face in life. And you think all the men are the same I say this because you didn’t write it down. I feel this is untrue that you don’t think that at all. Be careful what you write or people will think that what you have said assuming it.
You have idea what is indigo. Great! You have a taste and now I dare you to open the rest of your inner and outer powers. The world will see very different place when you do open them. And most CANNOT HANDEL IT for the fact their powers changes their lives completely forever and they want their old life BACK.